Possibly we could dispense with the character assassination of a man who is unable to defend himself, regarding an event of which we have no knowledge, the outcome of which is still very much uncertain, and the recovery from which will require tremendous effort and courage on the part of both Stan and his family.

Or continue to demonstrate total lack of compassion and empathy, which is very strong evidence of a sociopathic personality disorder...and cowardice.
Possibly the participants could share what psychological benefit they derive from being such an azz?? Does it really somehow make you feel better about yourself?