It seems pretty self explanatory Jim, but which would you rather have:
1) your daughter goes on a date with a man who slurps his soup, confuses his verb tenses, doesn't ask her how her day was, and uses the wrong fork for his steak. But, he doesn't lay a hand on her and drops her off 5 minutes before her curfew.
2) your daughter goes on a date with a man who speaks as smooth as Obama, wears only Brooks Brothers, and knows which wine goes best with chicken. But, he drops her off 5 hours after her curfew at a rest stop and a few months later you notice her belly is rising.
I understand these examples but I'd prefer good manners AND good behavior. Most people here practice both. RWTF displayed neither. This thread is about him, not my hypothetical daughter's dates.
Thank you,
