I'm a hit or miss guy with you guys, but I have a real connection with the DGJ. I can't imagine losing a child.
I lost my brother a year before my mother entered a long drawn out battle with dementia. Every time I visited her, she'd ask about Doug and where he was. The first time I said to her, Mom don't you remember Doug passed? She was shocked, and had to live the loss again. I think losing a child is the worst thing that can happen to a parent.
I'm so sorry for them.