I actually posed a similar question, on a different board, and to a few guys here. What I got, was basically that guys who could use lead used 2 3/4” loads, successfully. Few had bothered with the 3” 20 gauge, prior to non toxic shot. The guys using non toxic shot seemed to step up to 12 gauge, and not look back.
For what it is worth, I patterned 3” 20 gauge loads out of a Ruger Red Label about 40 years ago. The gun about kicked my teeth loose, and I found almost no difference in patterns at the board, at ranges I would shoot while carrying a 20 gauge (NOT 40 yards, maybe not 35). Loads have come a long way since I tried that, but, nobody seemed to feel the need to make their 20s into 12s, from what I could see.
I have a 3” 20 gauge, left to me by a late friend. He was a hell of a good guy, but, the beavertail, white line spacers, and pistol grip make me feel a bit like I am wearing a plaid, three piece suit when I use it in public.
Post what you find out. I have no desire to repeat the patterning exercise I went through as a younger man.
Best,
Ted