What King said, other than "I'm sorry"
I've told many a deacon that the wrong thing to say is "I know how you feel" and "It'll be alright".
None of us can know the pain of another, and some hurts just don't heal. I'm not sure I'm man enough to go through it again.
Praying that you have a friend and brother that can sit and weep with you Mike.

Interesting thing about dogs; somehow when we pet them, all our pain seems to flow out into them, and it doesn't bother them a bit.

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