I can't imagine anyone that enjoys a libertine life to abandon discretion and write about it here. It's a big world, and things happen.

Over the larger view, I think US culture is less accommodating than European culture in these sorts of matters. ie. Brangelina.
And those that are accommodative, keep their mouths shut, for fear of embarrassment or social disapproval.

My friends father had two families for forty years as example.

Out there doing it best I can.