Ryan,
my understanding of the original observation was that it was about force, irrespective of travel, weight , etc.. 
Yes but, we cant separate force and travel.  The force in a spring = k*x. The potential energy stored in a spring = 1/2*k*x^2.   The question is really, why so much k in a break gun?  
The break gun uses a relatively big k with a relatively small x.   The auto uses a relatively small k with a relatively big x.  The energy released is probably equivalent.
Thinking in terms of force is inadequate for explaining mechanisms.  I find it easier to think in terms of work and energy.