The hard thing about airing the laundry is that the neighbors all get to decide why and how it got the pee stains. So we're warned off Mr. DGHQ because he may or may not be a bit of a trimmer and likewise off Mr. Vella because he may or may not be a bit of trouble. Both parties' rep would benefit from a belated negotiation in which the observations made here are considered for what they're worth and a mutually-satisfactory resolution reached. I don't want to hear further from either of you until you've kissed and made up.

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