I agree with Jimmy. I have had success with a Charles Daly 20 gauge semi in youth size that is all black (kids like it) and it weighs 5 1/4 lbs. It will probably not stand up to heavy use over many years but it costs around $300 (or it used to cost that much). It has no kick and because it is so light the girls can hold it up without getting tired. Boys can use a heavier gun. I first tried a Franchi (Youth size AL-48 in 28 gauge)with similar weight but it is a recoil operated gun and would leave black and blue marks on the shoulder of girls. I sold it. A gas operated gun is the way to go and the Rem 1100 is way too heavy for a girl.