What a particular gun looks like to the lady counts, too. My wife. who hated flying and the time and treasure I was spending on it. commented while walking through a hangar one day that she liked the upholstery and "curtains on the window" of an Apache. I was looking for a Cessna 180. When I later saw one I liked I asked her to design and arrange for a new interior to her liking. Well, I got the plane and she happily started to fly with me and went on to her pilot's license.