I believe she would have to say "no" to be legal. You'd better figure out a way to get there yourself unless you can convince the FFL holder to bend the law for you. He has to run the background on you and you have to sign the form after answering the questions. If you want the gun badly maybe it's more important than the lodge meeting, for one night. You might be able to get around this if she says she is buying the gun as a gift for you. Sarah Brady bought a gun for her son this way. See note 1 on the form.
