You need to pickup the gun from your FFL. There is a uestion that is on the form and it is intedned to catch straw purchasers who are buying for others. Some of the others are not allowed to buy guns and use straw purchasers to buy what they want. He needs to deliver it to you as you are the buyer, not your better half. Some may not agree but rules are rules, some dealers may let it slide if they know you very well and just deal with the paperwork the next day. If caought they could well loose their FFL. Never post that a dealer does that for you as big brother is watching.