A simple application of auto rubbing compound will break the shine and absolutely not damage the finish - not a guaranteed result with steel wool of any grade. I have no idea what is used to finish the wood but putting linseed oil on anything is waste of time and energy. My experience with the 3M products is one of inconsistency and resulting unfortunate and unexpected scratches.

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