Gil, there are always a few in any group who on hearing of others living more interesting lives say it must be a lie. They fill their empty lives with denigration: She cant be what she says she is. She couldn't have done those things. They offer no evidence to back up their words. Fear and anger are behind it. They cant tolerate their opinions being challenged. I'm grateful to the majority of members engaging in healthy give-and-take. They keep me here.