Family and friends are all there is toward the end, craig. For Mercedes and money, look at Hillary: she really believes that she's not rich because she has so much less than the people she hangs with.

We're rich compared to her. Almost without exception, members here live engaging lives with family and community. We live modestly. We aren't what we own; the big-house big-man, big-boat big-man syndrome.

I think of members here as living like me. Aircraft ownership is expensive but I sacrifice by not engaging in recreational activities that cost more in time and money: golfing, curling, gambling, buying fashionable clothes, chasing girls etc.

We're the 1 per cent of happiness, taking nothing from others to boot.